A weed is a plant that has mastered every survival skill except for learning how to grow in rows. ~Doug Larson Loving dandelions feels like a revolutionary act. People in the suburbs don’t like them. There are whole aisles of the hardware store dedicated to their eradication. You could be “that neighbour” if you...
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It’s time. The crate has been empty long enough. The leash has hung limp long enough. We’re ready for a new dog to come home to us. Last summer and fall, when the grief over losing Kaylah was overshadowed by my surgeries and recovery, it was inconceivable that we’d fill that space with a...
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Before we left for our holiday in the islands, I saw this comic on Indexed: Sunsets are more beautiful on vacation. Go on. Click on it. It’ll only take a sec. I’ll wait. I think Jessica Hagy’s point is a good one – as our stress goes down, we are more likely to notice...
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We don’t stop playing because we grow old; we grow old because we stop playing. ~George Bernard Shaw I’ve been thinking about play and happy and ageing. I like to play. I like stuffed animals and board games and make-believe. I can turn just about anything into playtime. Which is not to say that...
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It must suck to live somewhere puddle jumping and ice skating are the same thing. ~Kristina at a Minnesota rest stop As a child, Kristina was the original puddle jumper. Every year we bought a new pair of waterproof boots, in a bright and cheery colour – puddle jumpers. We didn’t ever call them...
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Somewhere in the middle of Minnesota, we began to feel hopeful. The sun was shining for the first time since it dropped below the clouds of a misty sunset near Spokane, WA. We’d been tested by storms in Montana, Wyoming, and North Dakota. Our windshield washer lines were still empty and frozen, but we...
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A friend is one that knows you as you are, understands where you have been, accepts what you have become, and still, gently allows you to grow. ~Shakespeare This morning I had a call with a friend who embodies all of this. And even though – on the scale of life – she is...
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Many promising reconciliations have broken down because, while both parties come prepared to forgive, neither party comes prepared to be forgiven. —-Charles Williams Recently, Jen Louden shared the quote above on her facebook page. It stopped me in my tracks. I know that in order to give kindness without being a martyr, I must...
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You are full of unshaped dreams… You are laden with beginnings… There is hope in you… ~ Lola Ridge (from TWLOHA page on FB) “Now I can finally start my life,” she said. “This time,” I said to her. “Again. This time.” You started your life when you got your drivers licence. You started your life...
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